Wednesday, April 28, 2010

it happens for the best

How many times have we told ourselves "its for the best" especially when we dont get something we want or things dont work as planned. Disagreements with freinds, interview gone bad, relationship gone sour, no courage to take a stand, oppurtunities lost, countless moments in life where I, personally have repeatedly told myself its for the best!

I usually deal with the failure of Plan A as I call it, by spending time in solitude until the situation is stabilized in my mind, by calling up freinds to take me out for a cup of coffee hoping to momentarty forget the event, trying think of all the "if" situations that would exist and feel lousy while hoping tommorow will be a better day.

Hellen Keller had once said When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
The universe works in such a way that there will always be a Plan B, nothing comes to stand still, unless your dead. If you encounter a dead end, there is always roads on the right or left or there is the road you are already on. So if you're not destined for Plan A, there is def plan B or if your lucky a plan C too. Is it better than Plan A we will never know! Is it easy to say "it would not have worked out anyway"? yes it is, but We also have to assume that plan B is going to be bigger, better and more brilliant.

What's crucial in this whole episode is the attitude you use to tackle plan B. Is it of failure or is it of oppurtunity? Is it of dejection or of enthusiasm? But i love it when I dive right into it coz everything anyway happens for the best!!

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